How much of what you believe about relationships actually came from God?

Most of us have mixed Scripture with culture, personal opinions, old traditions, expectations, and fantasy, then tried to build relationships from the mixture.

We strip it down, put it against the Word of God, and see what actually holds up.

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This is bigger than dating. See what we are rebuilding.

The deeper problem was bigger than dating

We have to rebuild our relationship lens through Scripture.

We examine what we believe about dating, marriage, men, women, friends, family, and all forms of relationships, then put it against the Word of God to see whether it holds up.

Question the lens

Where did that belief come from?

Scripture? Culture? Personal opinion? Old tradition? Fantasy? We stop calling the mixture biblical.

Confront the trait

What is distorting the way you see?

Pride. Harshness. Control. Contempt. We name the trait, see what it produces, and stop dressing it up.

Practice the replacement

Learn a different way to respond.

Pride becomes humility. Harshness becomes gentleness. Control becomes surrender.

Pride • Harshness • Repentance • Control • Unfaithfulness • Sexual Immorality • Contempt

Dating. Marriage. Friendship. Family. Church. Work.

Learn to choose according to the mission instead of the fantasy.

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